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Monday Love / Bed Dilemma

Another edition of Monday Love…

A quote:The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise.”  Alden Nowlan

Something personal: Well, I think I’m ALMOST at the forgiveness stage!  What a great quote right?  I feel like my entire “mommy-hood” has been riddled with guilt in some way, shape or form.  The latest guilt is about Jake’s bed.  We recently took the front off of his crib so he could get in and out.  He has never climbed out of his crib, and in fact, I think he rather enjoyed the security of it.  But now that he rarely takes a nap, I felt guilty (there’s that word again), that he had to pee in his pull-up when he’s perfectly capable of going to the bathroom on his own.  Jeff and I have had many heated arguments discussions about the bed “situation” in our house.  I feel like we should have gotten Kylie a full bed rather than a twin, since she has the larger room and will be more likely to have sleepovers, etc.  That being said, I’m thinking we should get Kylie a full bed and move her twin bed into Jake’s room.  Then we have the problem of how do we make her bed look more “boyish.”  And then, we have to get some furniture for Jake’s room, namely a dresser.  Rather than deal with all of these things, we decided to just take the front off of his crib (so it’s a toddler bed), and when I look at these pictures I’m feeling guilty (again) because he’s clearly too big for the bed.  He falls off every night because he can’t even roll over without reaching the edge.  This never would have been “good enough” the first time around, but for the second child, it’s just not that big of a deal right? *SIGH*  I guess it’s time to do some furniture shopping.

I thought I would share the snapshots.  These were taken in VERY low light with my point & shoot camera.  Hilarious right?  Jake rolls off the bed, then continues sleeping on the pad we put next to the bed.

I should add a footnote.  Jeff put the bed rail on at first, but I made him take it off since it’s not “supposed to” be used with cribs.  My bad!  

Something I love: Mexican food!!!  I love it!!  At Chipotle, it’s the veggie bowl with peppers & onions.  At La Paz, I love the Steak and Carmelized Onion Quesadilla.  At Taqueria del Sol, I always get a fish taco and a chicken enchilada with lemon cream sauce.  At Rosa Mexicano – GUACAMOLE!!!  And now, thanks to my friend who had her 40th birthday last weekend, I found another restaurant with wonderful “upscale” mexican food — Alma Cocina!   Okay, who’s hungry??

Happy Monday!!!

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Monday Love / The Bike Project

Another edition of Monday Love…

A quote: Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.  Proverb

Something personal:  My husband and I both grew up with very modest lifestyles.  Single parents, public school, simple home/apartment, etc.  I think we both learned to appreciate the value of a dollar that way, and how hard our parents worked to make sure we had the things we needed.  I have great memories of my childhood, of my first job (at 15.5 years old), and my first car (a beat up red camaro!).  I worked for everything, including my college tuition!   When I look at my life now, and my kids lives, I would say we are “rich” in comparison.  And yet we live on a budget, we try to save money, we are “upside down” in our home (thanks to the housing market), and I long for new clothes, shoes, and purses!   I often ask myself why I want these “material things,” and I’ve yet to find a good answer.  I just do!  But alas, the point to my story is that Jeff is really good at fixing and reusing things.  I love that about him (and hate it sometimes too).   Here is a great example of the latest reuse/recycle project.  Kylie’s Barbie bike that I purchased at a consignment sale for $20 two years ago, repurposed into a VORTEX racer bike for Jake.  It’s better than any bike we could have bought in the store, and the whole family had fun completing the transformation.  Grandpa even found a new seat and pedals to complete the look.  And now the “making” of the bike is part of the memory.  Love that!

Here’s a “before” pic.  Kylie learned how to ride without training wheels in December.

The “after” picture.  Jake looks pretty cool right?

Something cool:  A while back at a friend’s Pampered Chef party I bought the Mix & Chop Tool.  It has been the best purchase – and I use it all the time!  It’s always such a pain to chop ground beef/turkey into small pieces with a spatula. This makes it so easy!  It’s the little things…..

 HAPPY MONDAY!!!

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Monday Love / Birthday Fun

Another edition of Monday Love…

A quote:  ”Your birthday is a special time to celebrate the gift of ‘you’ to the world.”  Anonymous

Something personal: I’m a little late, but I still wanted to post about Jake’s Birthday.  He just turned three, and I can’t believe how old (and yet how young) he is.  I still look at him as my baby, and wonder how long that will be the case (maybe forever).  And yet, he is growing into a sweet, outgoing, handsome little guy.  We decided to keep his party small (and it was a serious debate), so as not to overwhelm him with too much attention and chaos.  For some reason, in my mind, Jake is shy and I have labeled him as such.  If I take my mommy goggles off, I see now that he’s not shy at all, and he’s changing everyday.  I have a new goal to NOT label him (or Kylie) and TRY to let him grow into whomever he chooses to be.  VERY CHALLENGING!  :)

It was a beautiful day for his party and I had done much of the work in the month or two leading up to the day.  Which is a good thing because I was bed-ridden with Strep Throat the day before!  Thank goodness for Aunt Laurie, who not only helped with all the awesome decor (cupcake toppers, banner, thank you circles, etc.), but also arrived early and helped us get everything set up.  Jake had requested a ‘green’ party, and we added in the trains for a fun theme.  Kylie got to have her BFF over for the party and we told them they could help us with the little kids.  It was a great time!

To start off, here’s Daddy working on the train cake.  This was Jake’s self-proclaimed FAVORITE thing about his birthday.

I often found Jake hovering around the party table, waiting for a quiet moment to sneak some candy off the cake.

Welcome to the party!!!  (with Aunt Laurie)

Thank you bags with train whistles and train lollipops.

Our train cut-out craft magnets for painting.

My little man – hamming it up!

The whole group!  Jake’s best bud, Anna, who he has basically grown up with.  Plus, three friends from school and Kylie and Ainslee (our helpers) in the back.

The train theme was from TomKat Studio, and the cupcake toppers were from Parker’s Flour Patch on Etsy.  The custom Train T-Shirt was from Smitten and Company and the super-cool train puzzle was from Grandpa’s Workshop on Etsy.

Something cool: As many of you know, I always put a quote in my Monday Love posts.  I find them from various sources on the internet.  While searching recently, I found a website with tons of Dr. Seuss quotes and I have to say – that man was brilliant!  Though most of his quotes are in his children’s books, they definitely pertain to adults as well – even more so!

Here are a couple awesome quotes at the top of the list.  You can view more HERE.

“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”

“Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.”

HAPPY MONDAY!!!

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My girl and my man

I have so many emotions when I look at these pictures.  Mostly I’m grateful.  Grateful that I have Jeff, grateful that I have Kylie (and Jake, of course), and grateful that Kylie has the most amazing father I could have ever wished for.  And believe me, I wished many times growing up that I had a father by my side.  So. Many. Times.

And so to watch them have their very own special moments, the creation of what I know will be treasured memories, fills my heart with love (and my eyes with tears).

Here are a few pictures I snapped in the five minutes before they left for their very first Daddy-Daughter Dance.  I had to be quick, Jeff was annoyed that I even made him walk downstairs off the deck (to the patio) to do the pictures.  It’s hard to not be part of this special night, but I suppose I did my “part” by getting the dress, painting her nails, and doing her hair.  She’ll remember that too right?  Mostly I think she’ll remember all of the desserts at the party!

So grateful…..

Sniff-sniff.  Tears……

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Monday Love / Where oh where…

Another edition of Monday Love

A quote: “It’s good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.”  Ursula K. LeGuin

Something personal: It’s been a while.  I know.  A long while actually.  The fall was busy and then I fell off the photography planet and into another world, otherwise known as “my life.”  I’ve spent time with my family, time cooking (and even BAKING), I joined a running club with the goal of running my first 10K in March, I’m eating healthier.  I have also been spending time being creative in other ways that give me joy, like planning ridiculously cute details for Jake’s third birthday party (even though it will be super small) and thinking of ideas for Kylie’s possible “Pirate Birthday Party” in March, and even MY fiesta in April — the BIG FOUR-O!!  In short, I’ve been enjoying a life of what some people would call “leisure” and I’m trying not to feel guilty about it.  Would you believe I actually started designing MY OWN family album from our beach session last October?  *GASP*  All of these things happen between carpool, laundry, dishes, childcare, and husband-care (is that a word), but I have enjoyed every minute.

I cannot promise when things will get back into full swing for Tiny Heart Studios, as I’m taking a little break right now.  I have some other projects in the works, one involving the Atlanta Children’s Shelter.  And I thought I would share a recent project that got my work on the cover of the 2012 Winter/Spring WHERE Atlanta Street Map & Visitors Guide!  I did some pictures of some well known Atlanta landmarks and this one was picked up by the Publisher of Where Atlanta.

The original image:

And the map:

Here are a couple other images – the Atlanta Fish Market and one from the World of Coca-Cola:

I don’t really consider nature/landscape to be my specialty, but I had fun dabbling.  ;)

Something helpful: So maybe I’m behind the times, but I rarely (if ever) go to YouTube for anything.  I joined the facebook wave, and I do have several Pinterest Boards, including one dedicated to what my dream home (specifically the kitchen) would look like!  But, I guess I always thought of YouTube as a venue for a bunch of teenagers to make videos of themselves doing silly things.  I know, I know, it’s SO MUCH MORE.

So for anyone else who is maybe a little like me, and just doesn’t think of YouTube as super helpful, here are a couple videos that I think ARE pretty cool.

Recently I linked over to this video about how to curl your hair with a curling iron and it was really quite helpful.  The link, of course, was from Pinterest.  That got me wondering how many other helpful videos might be out there – and there’s A LOT!

Gordan Ramsay taught me how to chop an onion (I was doing it all wrong)

This one showed me a MUCH better way to cut a bell pepper into strips

And the parents that caught this on video and put it on YouTube should be given a hefty sum of money.  Hilarious!

That’s all for now!  Happy Monday!!!

 

 

 

 

 

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